Maybe we are all waiting for the wonderful grand gesture of love. You know, the part where the guy rocks up on his modern day White horse, sweeps you off your feet and proclaims to the whole entire world that he is totally and utterly head over heels for you. We should just remember that the White horse can be anything ranging from the most expensive car to a bicycle and by telling the whole world it can be anything from Jumping on Oprah’s couch to telling his best friend that he is in love.
So many times we are fixated on the idea of what the person should look like, be like, and act like, as we create an image in our minds of the package we think it should be presented in. This is a good and bad thing; creating an image or idea of what you want and need, sets the boundaries for what you are willing to settle for or go for, what you are willing to compromise on or what you would rather be confrontational about. It gives us way, to be a little selfish about what we think we need and deserve. It can be a bad thing, when that opportunity arises we sometimes are still to fixated on the image in our minds that we miss the different package that it is presented in, we look for various excuses just to justify why that isn’t something that we would want.
We also are supposed to know ourselves the best, so even if the Modern day Prince charming comes in and decides to rock your whole entire world, we have to be ready in some kind of way, we have to know that we aren’t just going for it because of loneliness, that we aren’t just infatuated by the idea that we created, presented in the present moment. So if we know ourselves the best, we know what we are willing to try and what not, we have this inherent ability to know what sits right with our soul. We start to get to know what makes our souls feel good, the kind of vibe and energy that we need to uplift us and not pull us down, the kind of energy that we exchange, the same vibes you give, the same you get.
Even if Prince Charming rocks up and makes the grand gesture, by writing a love letter and posting it and asks you to be his, if it doesn’t feel right, no amount of grand gesture will make it feel differently. This doesn’t mean that love isn’t there, it is just misplaced, you can either go ahead with it because of the gesture, but will that be the only reason? Because the Grand gesture was everything that you have been hoping for. It is also a matter of feeling happy with yourself and actually feeling ready for love to enter your life, being in a space so content that it opens your eyes to actually see in what weird packages the Modern day Prince comes in.
Thing is when that grand gesture is presented, if you aren’t in the right space of mind or seeking it for all the wrong reasons, it will just be an empty gesture and have you questioning when something so amazing will happen to you. If you are in the right space of mind, not even remotely seeking, basically saying fuck it to everything, when that grand gesture, the honesty reveals itself to you, I guess giving it a shot is the only way to go. I mean after all you have nothing to lose, but if the fear of losing your heart takes over the opportunity presented, we’ll that is supposed to be answer enough. If the gesture surprises you, and even if you know that the only thing you have to lose is your heart, and you are willing to lose it, well then congratulations, the energy and vibes are right and the gesture sits well with your soul.