When one hears the phrase Beauty Pageant, what comes to mind? The first thought that usually pops up is, “am I pretty, beautiful enough”, the second thought is “will I have to parade around in swimwear and is my body up to par of what beauty is supposed to be”. But in actual fact when the phrase Beauty Pageant is heard, the first thought that one should have is, “Am I confident within myself to partake in such an event/competition”. But anyway a few weeks ago I heard that my beautiful town was going to have its own Beauty Pageant, yes, for the first time in 35years, Beaufort West got ready to dust off the crowns and sashes, presenting not only a pageant, but a pageant with a purpose.
I entered the pageant for fun, and when I say fun, I mean that the last time I was on a catwalk/runway was back in 2007 when I entered my high schools annual pageant. This was an experience I figured would definitely be one for my bucket list, you know, top things to do before you turn 30. I really didn’t know what to expect and I guess for the most part, it didn’t actually sink in that I would in reality partake in this competition, until the day of the event. Even as the preparations commenced, it wasn’t all so real as when that light hit my face when I stepped out behind the curtain as my name got called “number 2- Jo-dene Jansen”. That was the first moment when I realised that there was no turning back, that I had to smile like I haven’t smiled in a while, be gracious, elegant and everything else that you do when you are in a pageant.
So a week before the pageant, we had a meet and greet, or what we figured would only be a meet and greet. We gathered at the museum and got an educational tour, where we learned more about the rich history of our town, yes Beaufort West is more than just a pit stop between Cape Town and Johannesburg along the N1. There is a difference of knowing and actually being aware of the abundance that our town consists off. Delving into the history of how a farm turned into what was to become a flourishing town, in 1818, and how this town proudly have the oldest municipality in the country (nice history lesson there). So many times we get so caught up in what is lacking that we actually forget to look at the present and even the past that has so many amazing positive influences, experiences than what we are aware off. While learning about our wonderful down, we also took a trip down memory lane, visiting the exhibition of Chris Barnard (1st heart transplant surgeon, yes he hails from Beaufort) and also his childhood home, where his ashes are buried in the front garden among the roses. All while this happened, the pageant experience was real, photographers capturing the candid moments that a group of about 25 ladies were experiencing. And still we had no clue what was about to happen.
Getting called in one by one, as a panel of judges wanted to have personal interactions with all of the contestants; and yes I was terrified, as confident and bubbly as I am, talking about myself when I don’t instigate it, is all kinds of scary. The question I totally dread was “so tell us about …. (insert your name)”, I responded that I felt this was a trick question, because I can talk about myself for hours, I could just say what I thought they wanted to hear, or I could just be me, the quirky, confident woman that I am. The “interview” went well and I made it to the Top 18, yippeeee I’d say, a step closer to that crown. I think what was most amazing about the Top 18, is that not everyone looked like a model that just stepped out of a magazine, there was a refreshing variety, tall, short, big, small, dark, light, and the top 18 was a diverse group.
The next week was preparation week, working with one of our local dance crews as they thought us how to shake, pop and drop, yes our opening dance had to be spectacular (and know not all of us have the grace of Fred Astaire). One of the challenging parts of the week wasn’t getting all the choreography correctly, but being in a room full of estragon is kind of challenging, different personalities, different voices, different opinions, so being confident has to be part of the criteria, standing your ground and voicing your concerns, opinions and input in a room full of strong women, wants to be done. In that week we learned how to work together as a team, if one of was out of sync in let’s say the dance moves, it would have influenced the whole moral of the group and how ones confidence feels. So the week taught us how to work together, how to be a team, how to be confident in ourselves and our differences, that our uniqueness binds us and doesn’t divide us.
Have you ever felt tensions so high amongst women, a dressing room can become too small, especially in a town where the average temperature soars to around 35 degrees Celsius on a normal day. Anyway, the only stressful thing was that it was extremely hot, the sharing and caring that took place between the ladies was really refreshing, just because we were competing for the same title, doesn’t mean that we had to be catty and bitchy toward each other. The way we shared the “home-made” handheld fans, hearing someone asking for some blusher, tissues or water, being able to share an experience with women and getting such a positive response is what made the pageant so wonderful. I mean we are all just trying to be the best versions of ourselves, so how can we be the best version if we cannot empower, inspire others without being negative and putting them down. This is one of the things that I personally take away from the pageant, to accept the differences that we once thought boxed us in different categories and allow the differences to bind and connect us, to strive for the same goal.
As we go through the motions, Top 18, Top 10 and Top 5, as the contenders get less, the butterflies’ increases. So the Top 5 got the same question, “what would you do to change the town, what would your influence be, what would you do to better life for others, how would you make your mark”, so this isn’t exactly where you would answer World Peace, but this is the part where you can be so brutally honest about something that you are so absolutely passionate about, that you breathe, taste, smell, and see it, and that this would be your mission and purpose. In the Miss World pageant, the slogan is Beauty with a purpose and this is exactly the type of thing that our Towns pageant leaned towards. To not only be physically beautiful, but mentally, spiritually, that you exude inner beauty and confidence and that through that you want to make a positive change in your community, town and country. Remember the saying, “Be the change that you want to see”, this is the best thing about the pageant, looking for a lady or ladies to be a leader and change the lives of others through their visions and wanting to make a difference.
This was an experience that I would definitely not trade for anything in the world, yes I strutted that runway like I owned it, in swimwear, big thighs and all. I made connections with like-minded people who has dreams, visions and passion that coincides with mine and that is to better not only my life, but those around me, to create opportunities and see them through. This was an experience where you learn that beauty isn’t just skin deep, that beauty is your confidence combined with your passion, with love for what ignites your mind, body and spirit, and then to get the chance, the opportunity to make your project, your dream, your passion a reality, because you indeed are a beauty with a purpose. This is only the beginning of women uniting and making positive changes, and the Beauty Pageant was and is the platform for this. So as I smiled and waved as the event came to a close, I went home with a full heart, with so much to be grateful for, being blessed with funds to make my vision a reality and knowing that beauty isn’t skin deep.
Johyphendene
1st runner up – Miss Beaufort West 2016